Sunday, November 9, 2008

Yes, Dear

I had a somewhat newly married relative couple over the other night. They seem to get along, but they bicker good naturedly like they have been married much longer. I find it odd that less than two years ago, the husband was single and hanging out with us, and now he is an old married man with a kid who sits at the kitchen table and belches (Really not a big deal in my family, though).

So I felt the need to compare their situation to my own. I have yet to mention the little woman, and I have to give her a blog reference name. I think I will go with BAC. It fits, trust me. I really could say whatever I want here since she refuses to read anything I write, but once again, that's for another time.

So BAC and I had a preview of empty nest syndrome this weekend. One is abroad, and the others were gone for the weekend. We were invited to an affair for lunch, but then came home to an quiet house, and if you know anything about my house, that is really really odd.
The kids didn't come home until much later, when we went and collected them (or they may never have come back) so for those few hours it was just BAC and me. It was nice, we managed to fill those hours with conversation and quiet companionship. I can't guarantee that we could maintain that, but as a preview, the main show looks good.

Now if only the kids would call once in a while....

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am sure BAC was chosen on purpose just so you would get a few comments WHAT DOES THAT STAND FOR????? just wondering.

Anonymous said...

firstly not every one in the family exhales noisy sounds and thinks it is lovely. Some of us who grew up with it find it rather disgusting and unappealing.

Glad you saw the positive aspects of time alone with the little wife. Very important moments, those.

And does this mean you weren't standing guard waiting to run out to rescue a punctured eyeball or semi heart attack?

Anonymous said...

i resent the reference to "the little woman" or "the little wife" Would you like to be refered to as the "shriveled man" or the "puny husband?"

FBB said...

How sweet.

Anonymous said...

Geez... if you could only hear yourself; you would realize how noisy it was in the house while your kids were out!

Try to have a bit more respect for "the little woman". She towers over you in so many ways, I'm not sure you want her to step on you "by mistake".

Anonymous said...

By the time you really have an empty nest (8 years or so), you might just grow up and (1) stop giving recitals after every meal (2) start wearing pants. Besides, the daughter in laws will come and that will force you to behave.

Anonymous said...

your quiet time alone with BAC, were you really alone or did "alone" include the random stranger kid reading on your couch? I've been in your home and while not always noisy, it is always full of people some of whom are unidentifiable by any of the permanent residents of the home.
Your house is always pleasant to be in - glad you could reap the benefits and see it for yourself!